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Anthony Okosa@nadbooks · 16 August 2026

31 Rules On Women


There are many rules to play this game of dating. Those who choose not to play will always come back looking for this article. I dare and double dare you to prove me wrong.


Theses are the rules:


1. Believe whatever the woman SHOWS you at first. Don't be blinded by love. The human mind reveals truth before lies. So before the actual event where she lies to you, she'll already have shown you the truth. Pay attention.


2. Women are only acting upon set rules placed on them by hormones. And if you learn how to handle them, you'll be blessed with their positive sides, if you don't learn, you'll be cursed by their negative sides.


3. Women are ruled by their emotions, so learn to use it to your advantage. To do this, you'll have be ruled by logic.

Don't love her with emotions, love her with logic. This means you never get to date a girl you actually love. Avoid dating the ones you actually are in love with. Stick with ones you are consciously learning how to love with practical logical steps.


4. Your greatest defense against manipulation by women is to learn to manipulate them. Women by their very nature are nurtured into manipulative beings simply because they are weaker physically. They are more mind based and are good at what they do. Learn to manipulate them, that's how they love to be communicated to.


5. Always lead a woman in a relationship. You should always be in control in the relationship. If you don't know to, learn it! No woman likes to lead in her relationship. If you don't lead, you'll be very unattractive.


6. Do not be the bitch in the relationship. Lead always. Always be the uninterested one. Again, don't be her bitch. Be the alpha, not the beta!


7. Women are as sexual as men are, don't be deceive. They desire it as men do. Moreso, nature kept special days called ovulation periods to torture them unrelentingly. Always make the move. Always, always!


8. The moment you feel you can't live without a girl, you've lost her. You'd be exhibiting unattractive traits that will only make her feel superior to you. A girl always needs to feel she loves you more than you love her.

The relationship is for women alone. The love is for them, the sex for us. It's why have to hoard your care for her to appreciate your love and care more.


9. Less means more when it comes to women. Less calls. Less chats. Less everything. Make her feel insufficiently attended to. Yes. Demand increases with decrease in supply. Nothing of value is readily available!


10. Never take advice on sleeping with women from other women. Never ever ever!


11. What is unsaid when with women is often more than what is said. Learn to use your eyes more when flirting with women.


12. When caught cheating, always always deny. Deny and deny. She will convince herself in time. As noble as you may think you want to be, your nobility will only be seen as wickedness, best to keep it to yourself. Save her the truth. They prefer lies.


13. Always treat a woman's tantrums like you would a child's. Firm and unpersuaded. Don't get drawn in to her manipulation. Control it from outside, not from within it.


14. Buying, begging and changing for girl will only increase her disdain for you. Never ever do that! In fact, demand stuffs from her. If she's attracted to you, she will invest more than you, not the other way around. You can't outdo women in love or giving.


15.  If think she's cheating, she has already cheated. Your instincts subconsciously picked up changes in her behavioural pattern. Believe your instincts.


16. Never fully trust a woman. It's not in their character to be trustworthy. EVERY WOMAN!


17. You're never truly ready for a relationship until you know what's out there. Chat up 20 women.  Then chat up another 20. Get gather data on what you really want before you settle.


18. The moment you make a woman your life, is the moment she's walking out of yours. Never make feel like she has you all to herself. Never ever do that!


19. Always treat a woman like something you want to lose. You'll never lose her. No matter what you think, don't believe you'll lose her. She knows what she wants. Women don't easily give up on who they want. If she does, you're not what she's looking for!


20. Women would rather sleep around with a psychopath unstable guy, than a guy she has more influence over. Even though you're stable and sane.


21. Don't even make her feel special. Make her know she's nothing. Trust me, they prefer it that way. Forget what you see in movies. They are made to please women into buying it but in reality, they run after the ones who treat them the opposite way.


22. Always let her say I love you first. She'll respect you for your self control. Remember, your love selling point. Just like the sex is hers. Hoard it. See how you feel when she refuses you sex, that's how she'll feel- drawn to you even more.


23. Watch what a girl does; not what she says!


24. If a girl dumps you, never take her back. The relationship will always be doomed to fail again and again.


25. If you notice one red flag,  prepare to leave. Two, start packing your bags. Three, you had better be long gone by then.


26. Women lie. Get over it. Learn to play the game too.


27. The more money you have, the more attractive you are to the materialistic ones. But learn to put up a humble front at first to screen out the golddiggers.


28. Women are hypergamous. Deal with it. Be a man of high market value. She's always gonna want other men. Be the other men she's gonna want. Always upgrade. Don't be static. Be better.


29. Never set aside your life goals to please a woman. You'll never please her and you'll be miserable. Women have fish brains. Trust me.


30. You'll never lose a woman by having other admirers.

Never focus on one woman. You'll lose her and lose all the others too. It will only make her know she's after a good of high value!


31. You have no other choice than to play this game.

It's like the gravitational law, you'll always fall down in obedience.

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